Burcaw authored an article in TODAY titled “6 things I want you to know about our interabled relationship,” shedding light on key aspects he wishes people to grasp about his affection for Aylward. He delved into the pervasive misconceptions surrounding disabilities, expressing frustration that others often perceive him as a child or someone incapable of engaging in a romantic relationship.
Highlighting a particular encounter, Burcaw recounted a moment at a liquor store when a cashier addressed Aylward, saying, “Does this big guy want a lollipop?” Swiftly responding, Burcaw asserted, “Nope, just the beer. Thank you, sir,” challenging the preconceived notions that frequently accompany his visible disability.
Burcaw aimed to dispel the notion that his relationship is unique, emphasizing that numerous interabled couples have shared their own stories inspired by “Squirmy and Grubs.” He underscored the recurring theme in their messages: “Our relationship feels so normal! Why can’t the rest of the world see that?”
Addressing an unspoken concern that often arises, Burcaw tackled the assumption that by being with him, Aylward is committing to a life of childless celibacy. He clarified that their intimate life is fulfilling, and they both envision having children in the future
